January 25, 2009
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Unfettered Communion
Dear Folks,
Mister Computer Fancy Pants:
I like my computer programming class. I have become more daring in my regular use of the computer, as well, what you might call a spin-off benefit. For example, as you will notice above, I have moved the photo to the right a bit, not merely allowing it to stay aligned with the left margin, the way they come in. I thought of it myself, thinking, I bet if I click on the left of this photo, and just insert a few spaces with the ole proverbial space bar with either or both of my thumbs, why that thing'd move right over. And lo and behold it did! Won't wonders never cease!
I also noticed that we can change the background color of our web pages. Hence, I chose a light blue, to offset my pink comments galore. Changing font size has not been a major problem for me. I've been proficient in that, say, maybe for one year now. I will leave it as an exercise for the reader to verify that by searching back through my web log to ascertain with greater accuracy just when I began introducing font of a variety deviating from the standard with which we are provided when we began an entry.
The Lunar New Year:
Today is the first day of an increasingly anachronistic 3-day holiday called Sull-Al. The first syllable gets the stress and is like the first sound of "sully," while the second syllable is like the name "Al." They write is like this, 설날. With the continued rising dominance of Christianity though, the older holidays from previous cultures and nations still recognized here are fast receding, going out of fashion. Everybody still enjoys a few days off from work and school, though increasingly more high school students actually forego the holiday and stay home to study.
In fact, as time goes on, more and more families eschew the tradition of visiting their relatives at the oldest surviving brother's house from the patriarchal line. More families try to drop by the wife's side of the family, even if only for a short visit, not staying overnight, as is common for visits to the husband's extended family. But overall, there is a continued decline in the number of families who get out at all. My students always come back saying they did not like the visit, those who actually go, which is still over half. They report they were bored the whole time, and did not talk with their grandparents and aunts or uncles much at all, beyond the mandatory few words of greeting. They miss their computers and friends.
Unfettered Communion:
I will try to get some photos from our visit to my in-laws, where we will go today. Then, I'll come back and plug them into this web log entry to jazz it up a bit, give it some badly needed color. I called my mother this morning. She said she keenly feels the presence of her departed husband, my father. She is not very lonely, and enjoys being by herself. I understand. When you are alone, you have unfettered communion with God. Nothing tops that.
We have more snow today. And this time it really laid. Well, to continue that thought, I might add that I was officially accepted into the ranks of my seminary, and now am registered for my first course to make a preacher. In the abstract, to be more familiar, I would fain like to add names for my school, and my wife's school in the U.S., but I have been warned not to do that, for safety reasons, so no internet pervert could lust after my children and come find them in real life.
My wife agreed with the Xanga friend who advised us so, and hence, I use "spy-esque" aliases for my children. My Clever Lad is beside me just now, talking about some "metal gun." He has a gun in his hand, toy, but tells me, "This is not my metal gun. Find my metal gun." Rather uppity, no? He's only four, and learns to command others about from his older siblings, it would seem.
COSTCO and Photos:
Yesterday I went to COSTO and bought myself a chunk a cheese. I bought Parmesian, two big wedgies deluxe. They taste good with the dry red wine. I'm listening to Crimson and Clover now, sung by Joan Jett. She does it well, not unlike how Jimi Hendrix took Bob Dylan's All Along the Watchtower to a new level, or What's Their Name's rendition of Dylan's Knockin' on Heaven's Door.
I took two neighborhood urchins along with the rest of our brood, going via subway for five stops East. I allow My Dandelion to bring a couple of female friends "on-account-a-how-come-why-for" (because) she has no sisters, what with me being somewhat stingy on the "X's" in fertilizing the beloved wife.
The Mom got 540 photos copied for her, from our second half of 2005. We are a little behind on getting photos to my parents. My father, now passed away, missed out on a bundle of precious shots, though I did send him a smattering on a semi-regular basis via e-mail, while he was still kicking.
Love, Padooker
My Clever Lad boning up on the old fiddle.
Trivia question for the Fiddling Astute: "Hey! Is that there one of them old Hambone Fiddles?"
Comments (4)
Nice to hear your news. Fancy Smancy color background! Too bad the student can't enjoy the simpler way of life on their time off. They will be searching for it when it gone and they're older. Such is life! I posted a new bug picture that you and your son might enjoy seeing. Have a great day!
Yes, there are two major holidays here in South Korea, and several minor ones. Both major ones offer three days of freedom from the grind of studying. But my students prefer being with their friends, and also playing computer games. They lament the fact that most of their grandparents do not have computers for that.
Also in general, "family" is relatively less important here than friends and academics, according to my students. Most of my young students do not know some of the most basic information about their grandparents and aunts and uncles, such as: favorite colors; favorite sitcoms, dramas; dreams (now and throughout earlier life); previous jobs and homes; high school names and graduation dates, and sometimes even names, which is surprising to a rural Southerner. But, we (in the rural South) grow up with our grandparents and relatives nearby.
Still, I give them homework, to interview their grandparents, and find out these items of personal information, and then come home and write it in English for me, to makea scrapbook, to better help them know, and remember their older extended family members. I have many students. Invariably, when they meet, they do not talk to their elders much at all, and come home empty handed, despite promises to do their best to establish a genuine relationship.
What's it like in your corner of the U.S. now? Do your children (and their peers at school) know much about their grandparents and aunts and uncles? Do they know where they lived in their youth? Do they know the jobs they had throughout life?
These kids! They are soooooo cute!
Yes, but they take a lot of time. Be sure to get everything done you want to do before you marry. I had to cancel my newspaper subscription when my third child came along. He would sneak around behind me, climb up on the couch, then jump over my head (me lying on the floor) and come down in the middle of my newspaper, which of course, I would have to let go of to catch him and avoid tearing the paper. I finally realized the futility of trying to read a paper when I had rambunctious children that age.
That will be a project for retirement, along with resumption of real coffee. I got off coffee, switched to decaf, a few months ago, to get better sleep. I wake up during the night to get the kids to all urinate, to avoid wetting our bed, and getting back to sleep at age 47 is not so easy, especially when I skip exercise.
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